Where to begin?
1) supaman2525, I should infract you for bumping a really dead thread with incorrect information, but I'll just give you a warning. Next time, just start a new thread.
2) Erik did not die of shellfish.
3) It's true that JDF couldn't handle going to Thuy's funeral, but it's not because Thuy and Erik passed away at the same time. Erik passed away in April 2001 and Thuy in September 2001.